Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Discernment

I posted on FB I am so thankful for a Heavenly Father who is faithful and who loves us. I said that I am thankful that He has given me the wisdom and discernment I have prayed for so fervently this year.

TRANSLATION
D sent me pics of Christmas decorations on Sunday and I did not respond. Monday he sent a message saying I know you think I've moved on but I truly love you. I replied that I have not given him reason not to move on and I am happy for him.

He responded back with some plea about just giving him a chance.
I've been composing emails that I have not been sending and I put a few of those emails into a cohesive thought and sent an email explaining to him why it's over.

He might be trying to compose an email response. However, it would be in his best interest not to reply.
Today something told me go check his FB. So glad I did. I had him blocked so I would not see his information so I unblocked him. He went to a Christmas show on 12/6 with the girlfriend.

I sent him a text message. I said do not contact me further. I told him not to reply to my email, not to text me again. I said I will be filing for divorce in February and if he needs to communicate with me to contact my lawyer.
I don't care that he's moved on I care that he's trying to convince me of "love" with a girlfriend. I needed to be reminded that he's a liar and a manipulator.

I just put in my PTO request for 2/5/15, the day that I file and will finally be done! 6 weeks!

1 comment:

Lisa's Yarns said...

I am so glad that you feel a sense of discernment about all of this. I hope that Darron heads your request and does not contact you again. It will be so good to put this behind you... I know it won't magically all go away on 2/5/15, but that is going to be a big step towards healing and moving forward. Love you and am thinking of you!!