This time of year always brings about a time of reflection. When I was talking to my summer college roommate (I have 2 one I lived with for 21/2 years the other I sublet a room in the apartment she had in Boone) so she and I were discussing this time last year. I had just broken up with the guy I now think of as a holy roller and I planned to take a break from dating. I was sick last year from about Thanksgiving to New Years and New Years Eve I was supposed to work but instead I spent it on my couch. Then that following Saturday I was still unable to go in but went out with the college roomie 2 and met the guy who I went out with a few times. He was one who liked to go out and I was not trying to get back into that mode so he and I parted ways after 2 dates. Then BG contacted me and I found out he had a girlfriend and that was just disturbing to me. In fact sidenote, BG actually had the nerve to text me on Christmas to say Merry Christmas. Seriously I don't want to but if he contacts me again I will remind him that I already told him if he contacted me I would contact his girlfriend and send her the link to this blog that has the transcript of the conversation that he and I had last year superbowl sunday. Ok back to my story, so I found out about BG and the girlfriend and that really ticked me off and then I had the trip to Atlanta to visit my friend who was about to have a baby and she's also the sister of my exboyfriend who lives in Atlanta as well. He came up for dinner that Friday night and I realized that it was possible he wanted to get back together. I did not have any desire to get back together with him as I had very specific reasons for breaking up with him. I never have revealed to him that I cheated on him and it is my belief that if you cheat on them you have no business being in a dating relationship with that person. So that was a weird situation. I arrived back in Charlotte and my full time job was miserable. I was desperately searching for a new job. There was not much and I was greatful for the fact that I did have a full time job. At the end of February I was getting a little bored and after my brothers success on Match I decided to give it another try. I met a guy who I was intrigued by he and I had all kinds of physical chemisty but he was really only interested in one thing, well maybe two, he really did love my cookies.
So I end things with him to date the guy from high school. The guy from high school I really thought was something special and I thought it was going to move right along to the altar... But then he flipped a switch and I realized that he was actually just a jerk. He called me clingy and I AM NOT clingy!! So he and I break up and all along I'd talked to the guy I dated before him and then I made the biggest mistake of all. I gave the guy who broke my heart into a million pieces yet another chance and found out he hadn't changed. He begged me to forgive and give him another opportunity and like a fool I did. Fortunately this time around as much as it hurt I learned an important lesson, he's never going to change. Because of that relationship I will no longer give second, third, fourth chances. If it didn't work out it didn't work out for a reason. If I have dated someone and we go our separate ways I will not stay friends or stay in touch. It's over, life moves on. While this may seem harsh it seems to be what I have to do. There are exceptions but for the most part this is where I stand. After that fiasco I decided it was time to distract myself and so I resigned with Match. I actually had a couple dates and talked to a couple different guys. I found that it took a lot of effort to keep everyone straight and didn't really click with anyone. By the time I started talking to my current boyfriend I had cancelled my subscription and decided it was time to take a break and sign up for EHarmony in January. Then I ran a 15K and this guy who I had seen before at the 10K introduces himself to me. If you had told me that I would meet a guy at the end of a race when I look absolutely horrible I would have said you are out of your mind. And yet I did and it works. So I enter 2010 with a fantastic new job, a wonderful part time job, a roommate who I like, my family is healthy, my brother is getting married and I have an amazing boyfriend. This year has been challenging as far as money and for the better part of the year my job. I've learned that you have to let go of things and for me this is hard. I'm so excited to see what this new decade will bring!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Friendship
The best part about having friends who have all known you for either most of your life or more than 10 years is that they know you well! I've been blessed to have friendships that have lasted despite ups and downs along the way.
I went over the story about the running buddy with my oldest friend, my next oldest friend, my friend from high school and my 2 college roommates. I tend to need to vent and they all are good to point out when I'm being crazy or unreasonable.
Today I met with my college roommate, who lived with me 2 1/2 years, I don't know how she managed but she did. So as I begin to tell the story she says it sounds like ya'll were dating and I told her just wait it gets better. She asked if the person was still single and when I said yes she and I could both understand why.
What I didn't have time to go into with her was the further thought that I've had regarding this situation. (This is the good thing about writing out my thoughts here, I love my friends dearly and at some point you have to quit spinning the wheel of conversation on a topic and this one I'm getting tired of) But back to my further thought.
This running buddy and I ran several races together but I also ran on my own. She is a cute girl, intelligent, classy, cleans up well. I realized that she deleted me from her facebook friends after I changed my relationship status. This leads me to believe that despite her claim that she's very happy for me and not at all jealous she is in fact so jealous she can't see straight. I say that for this reason. We ran all these times together and she never met a guy. I even encouraged her to join a running group so she could meet potential guys who enjoyed running. She didn't. So the fact that I meet a guy at a race is like a burr under her saddle. The fact that he's smart, treats me well and is a dentist must be making her green because she didn't find someone as well. I'm not trying to be rude or insensitive I just truly believe that along with turning 30 this was just too much for her to take.
The thing is my guy wouldn't even be her type and she would not have given him a second look nor the time of day. I wasn't looking when I met him. I had decided to take another break from dating until after the new year and then I planned to resign up for EHarmony. Now 2 months later I find myself getting to know this amazing wonderful guy! I have also found myself on the running buddy's S(*& list. I tend to agree with my other college roommate that relationships that require this much work are not worth it. I just wish that we didn't work together and I didn't have to work so hard to keep out of her way!
I went over the story about the running buddy with my oldest friend, my next oldest friend, my friend from high school and my 2 college roommates. I tend to need to vent and they all are good to point out when I'm being crazy or unreasonable.
Today I met with my college roommate, who lived with me 2 1/2 years, I don't know how she managed but she did. So as I begin to tell the story she says it sounds like ya'll were dating and I told her just wait it gets better. She asked if the person was still single and when I said yes she and I could both understand why.
What I didn't have time to go into with her was the further thought that I've had regarding this situation. (This is the good thing about writing out my thoughts here, I love my friends dearly and at some point you have to quit spinning the wheel of conversation on a topic and this one I'm getting tired of) But back to my further thought.
This running buddy and I ran several races together but I also ran on my own. She is a cute girl, intelligent, classy, cleans up well. I realized that she deleted me from her facebook friends after I changed my relationship status. This leads me to believe that despite her claim that she's very happy for me and not at all jealous she is in fact so jealous she can't see straight. I say that for this reason. We ran all these times together and she never met a guy. I even encouraged her to join a running group so she could meet potential guys who enjoyed running. She didn't. So the fact that I meet a guy at a race is like a burr under her saddle. The fact that he's smart, treats me well and is a dentist must be making her green because she didn't find someone as well. I'm not trying to be rude or insensitive I just truly believe that along with turning 30 this was just too much for her to take.
The thing is my guy wouldn't even be her type and she would not have given him a second look nor the time of day. I wasn't looking when I met him. I had decided to take another break from dating until after the new year and then I planned to resign up for EHarmony. Now 2 months later I find myself getting to know this amazing wonderful guy! I have also found myself on the running buddy's S(*& list. I tend to agree with my other college roommate that relationships that require this much work are not worth it. I just wish that we didn't work together and I didn't have to work so hard to keep out of her way!
Monday, December 28, 2009
Must Vent
I’ve had a running buddy who I’ve done quite a few of my races with. She is the reason I landed the interview for my new job. I respect her, think she’s a great person. She and I ran the UNCC 4.9K on October 24 and the next day I had my first date with my current guy. He and I would have our next date the following Friday. Then that Sunday we went for massages and Jack (my dog)met Snickers and Sophie (his dogs). I continued to have a once weekly running time with this running buddy up until the week of Thanksgiving. The Wednesday before Thanksgiving she and I went to lunch.
Now after the 15K that we ran she blew out her knee and I didn’t have time to train for Thunder Rd ½ marathon so it was my understanding that we were not going to do this. The 5K that corresponded with this event was $30 and I felt that too much to pay for a 5K. Meanwhile I looked at November races and the 10K in Huntersville was a good chance for me and by this time I had agreed to do the Miami ½ marathon with the current guy in January. My brother wanted to run the 10K with me so it was a great opportunity. Then the week before the 10K current guy did sign up for it. There had been a 5K the weekend before but when I had originally asked the running buddy if she wanted to do this she said she was going to a football game that day. So we go to lunch at the day before Thanksgiving. The week after Thanksgiving she had the flu. I texted all 3 days asking if there was anything I could do and letting her know I would be happy to leave anything she needed at her doorstep. She came back to work that week on Thursday and was really week from being so sick.
I asked what plans she had for her 30th b’day the following Thursday and she didn’t have any so I said I would like to take her to dinner as long as I didn’t have to work Nobles. The following Monday I let her know that I didn’t have to work and asked if we could go for a run before dinner. Now I thought about it before I asked and if it had been me I knew I would have wanted to do the run beforehand and the only reason I didn’t run on my b’day was b/c I was running around like a chicken with my head cut off on that day.
So when I sent the email her reaction was kind of weird. The next day she’d been out all day, comes over to my desk I brought up her b’day and running again, not realizing that it was a sore subject until she turned her back and walked away from me. So Wednesday I sent an apology email and said that I was sorry and whatever I had done I wanted to apologize for and if she still wanted to do dinner the next night then afternoon and evening were totally free for whatever she wanted to do.
She responded back that she was just working thru some “stuff”.
So we meet for dinner. The b’day card I hand her gets thrown in her purse. We get thru dinner and she says she owes me an apology and then proceeds to tell me that while she’s very happy for me and she’s used to getting put on the back burner when friends get into relationships that she feels completely replaced with me. She tells me that she’s very upset about the Thunder Rd 5K b/c we’d been talking about that for months and all of the sudden I back out. She is mad that I can run the 10K with current guy (actually I ran this with my brother and current guy was just able to join us b/c he didn’t go to MI for Thanksgiving). And I was able to sign up for the Miami ½ marathon but I couldn’t run that Jingle Jog (thunder rd 5K) with her. Well I only registered for the Miami ½ the Saturday before I hadn’t been able to afford the race before that. I thought the 10K a better use of my money then the 5K but I don’t say this I just sit and listen. She feels replaced, running had always been our thing. She said that her perception wasn’t the reality (and she said this a few times basically calling me a bad friend). She made it sound like I had repeatedly cancelled on her to hang out with Shawn which was not the case b/c of the fact that we continued to run once a week after I met Shawn until Thanksgiving. At this point current guy and I had only been dating 6 weeks. She said she’d always been good about working with my schedule and running and that she just resents the fact that she’s been replaced. So I let her have her say and then I just said that I was sorry she felt this way and what could I do to fix it. I’m sitting there in a weird position b/c I haven’t done anything wrong. My life is insanely busy, I had actually made a real effort to continue our once weekly runs and she’s chewing me out over things that are just not true. But she’s my friend and I want to make it better but really there’s nothing I can do. She couldn’t tell me what to do to fix it. So dinner ends and I’m a little frustrated by what’s just gone down. I mean here we are we work together. She’s always been the one to need a workout buddy. I actually prefer to work out on my own and Shawn and I rarely see each other during the week with our schedules. Before I met current guy I ran a few races without her and yes I ran one with another friend and the first 10K with a different friend but I am capable of running or working out without the need for anyone else. Yesterday I ran 9 miles, ON MY OWN. So while I understood she needed a buddy I had asked her to run still even though it wasn’t always convenient for me.
OK so she and I had signed up for the Cooper River Bridge Run in Charleston in March around the same time that current guy and I started dating. She told me at dinner that night that if he was coming to tell her now and she would make other plans. He’d not registered and I had just left the subject alone b/c I figured it was something she and I would have fun doing.
Ok so we have this conversation followed by a really awkward week, I would smile and say hello and she barely acknowledged it.
Last week I get an email telling me that we haven’t touched base since her b’day and that she had a good trip to VA and that she’d talked to her friend about the Charleston run and she wants to come and she looked at the hotel and there were rooms available so why didn’t shawn go ahead and book a room and then we could all do this together. I didn’t ask why her friend and her soon to be husband didn’t just get a room I said it sounded like a good idea to me. Her response great see you there. Here’s the deal, she didn’t want to ride with me down there nor did she want to room with me. The thing about this email is the fact that she sent it from her work email to my yahoo email and the response the next day was sent back to my yahoo email when I was sitting about a foot away from her. I would have actually just eaten the registration fee and not gone but since current guy is going I figure he and I will have a fun trip to Charleston and I don’t think he’s been before. We’ll see what happens I may still eat that registration fee. Now I’m still trying to be nice and Christmas Eve I smile and say Merry Christmas and she just gives me this injured, you’re such a horrible person look. I really want to be rude or lash back but we work together so at this point I just have to suck it up and continue to act like nothing is going on.
So then yesterday I’m on FB and find that she’s deleted me as a friend. I swear I feel like I’m going thru a break up with a girl, this is the most ridiculous situation EVER. Yes I know she just turned 30 and yes I know she’s stressed about work stuff but this whole situation of being upset at me is ridiculous. If the situation was reversed I would think it’s just so great that she’s found someone and she’s happy and that’s how life works. I've got a crazy schedule, a lot of responsibility and for you to be upset with me over something like this is, in my opinion, just RIDICULOUS!
Now after the 15K that we ran she blew out her knee and I didn’t have time to train for Thunder Rd ½ marathon so it was my understanding that we were not going to do this. The 5K that corresponded with this event was $30 and I felt that too much to pay for a 5K. Meanwhile I looked at November races and the 10K in Huntersville was a good chance for me and by this time I had agreed to do the Miami ½ marathon with the current guy in January. My brother wanted to run the 10K with me so it was a great opportunity. Then the week before the 10K current guy did sign up for it. There had been a 5K the weekend before but when I had originally asked the running buddy if she wanted to do this she said she was going to a football game that day. So we go to lunch at the day before Thanksgiving. The week after Thanksgiving she had the flu. I texted all 3 days asking if there was anything I could do and letting her know I would be happy to leave anything she needed at her doorstep. She came back to work that week on Thursday and was really week from being so sick.
I asked what plans she had for her 30th b’day the following Thursday and she didn’t have any so I said I would like to take her to dinner as long as I didn’t have to work Nobles. The following Monday I let her know that I didn’t have to work and asked if we could go for a run before dinner. Now I thought about it before I asked and if it had been me I knew I would have wanted to do the run beforehand and the only reason I didn’t run on my b’day was b/c I was running around like a chicken with my head cut off on that day.
So when I sent the email her reaction was kind of weird. The next day she’d been out all day, comes over to my desk I brought up her b’day and running again, not realizing that it was a sore subject until she turned her back and walked away from me. So Wednesday I sent an apology email and said that I was sorry and whatever I had done I wanted to apologize for and if she still wanted to do dinner the next night then afternoon and evening were totally free for whatever she wanted to do.
She responded back that she was just working thru some “stuff”.
So we meet for dinner. The b’day card I hand her gets thrown in her purse. We get thru dinner and she says she owes me an apology and then proceeds to tell me that while she’s very happy for me and she’s used to getting put on the back burner when friends get into relationships that she feels completely replaced with me. She tells me that she’s very upset about the Thunder Rd 5K b/c we’d been talking about that for months and all of the sudden I back out. She is mad that I can run the 10K with current guy (actually I ran this with my brother and current guy was just able to join us b/c he didn’t go to MI for Thanksgiving). And I was able to sign up for the Miami ½ marathon but I couldn’t run that Jingle Jog (thunder rd 5K) with her. Well I only registered for the Miami ½ the Saturday before I hadn’t been able to afford the race before that. I thought the 10K a better use of my money then the 5K but I don’t say this I just sit and listen. She feels replaced, running had always been our thing. She said that her perception wasn’t the reality (and she said this a few times basically calling me a bad friend). She made it sound like I had repeatedly cancelled on her to hang out with Shawn which was not the case b/c of the fact that we continued to run once a week after I met Shawn until Thanksgiving. At this point current guy and I had only been dating 6 weeks. She said she’d always been good about working with my schedule and running and that she just resents the fact that she’s been replaced. So I let her have her say and then I just said that I was sorry she felt this way and what could I do to fix it. I’m sitting there in a weird position b/c I haven’t done anything wrong. My life is insanely busy, I had actually made a real effort to continue our once weekly runs and she’s chewing me out over things that are just not true. But she’s my friend and I want to make it better but really there’s nothing I can do. She couldn’t tell me what to do to fix it. So dinner ends and I’m a little frustrated by what’s just gone down. I mean here we are we work together. She’s always been the one to need a workout buddy. I actually prefer to work out on my own and Shawn and I rarely see each other during the week with our schedules. Before I met current guy I ran a few races without her and yes I ran one with another friend and the first 10K with a different friend but I am capable of running or working out without the need for anyone else. Yesterday I ran 9 miles, ON MY OWN. So while I understood she needed a buddy I had asked her to run still even though it wasn’t always convenient for me.
OK so she and I had signed up for the Cooper River Bridge Run in Charleston in March around the same time that current guy and I started dating. She told me at dinner that night that if he was coming to tell her now and she would make other plans. He’d not registered and I had just left the subject alone b/c I figured it was something she and I would have fun doing.
Ok so we have this conversation followed by a really awkward week, I would smile and say hello and she barely acknowledged it.
Last week I get an email telling me that we haven’t touched base since her b’day and that she had a good trip to VA and that she’d talked to her friend about the Charleston run and she wants to come and she looked at the hotel and there were rooms available so why didn’t shawn go ahead and book a room and then we could all do this together. I didn’t ask why her friend and her soon to be husband didn’t just get a room I said it sounded like a good idea to me. Her response great see you there. Here’s the deal, she didn’t want to ride with me down there nor did she want to room with me. The thing about this email is the fact that she sent it from her work email to my yahoo email and the response the next day was sent back to my yahoo email when I was sitting about a foot away from her. I would have actually just eaten the registration fee and not gone but since current guy is going I figure he and I will have a fun trip to Charleston and I don’t think he’s been before. We’ll see what happens I may still eat that registration fee. Now I’m still trying to be nice and Christmas Eve I smile and say Merry Christmas and she just gives me this injured, you’re such a horrible person look. I really want to be rude or lash back but we work together so at this point I just have to suck it up and continue to act like nothing is going on.
So then yesterday I’m on FB and find that she’s deleted me as a friend. I swear I feel like I’m going thru a break up with a girl, this is the most ridiculous situation EVER. Yes I know she just turned 30 and yes I know she’s stressed about work stuff but this whole situation of being upset at me is ridiculous. If the situation was reversed I would think it’s just so great that she’s found someone and she’s happy and that’s how life works. I've got a crazy schedule, a lot of responsibility and for you to be upset with me over something like this is, in my opinion, just RIDICULOUS!
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Every Once in a While
You know for the most part I've moved on from the significant relationship of 3 years ago. He's married and happy and I wish him all the best and it's not him that I even miss or have any desire to ever see again.
Yet there was a little blonde haired blue eyed girl. She was 3 when we met and she stole my heart. The thing is she nor I was perfect. I was in an odd place, not her mom, not her stepmom, just her Dad's girlfriend. But she was a part of my life and my heart in a big way!
I'm currently sitting in my cube at work and one of my coworkers just came by with his precious little girl. She's 2 with blonde curls and blue eyes and she just carried on a conversation with me. It took me back for just a minute.
I can now walk thru a target without immediately tearing up at the sight of little girl clothes. I can go to the mall and walk by The Children's place and go in and look for my nephew without too much hurt when I see the little girl clothes.
She's a tomboy now this little girly girl who stole my heart. She loved baby dolls and playing kitchen and pretty dresses. That part of her has been squelched by parents and step parents who don't approve and therefore don't allow her to have any of it. I too would have been squelched had I stayed with her father. I think it would have been daily misery had I continued my life with him.
It takes being 3 years out from the start and 2 years out from the end to look back and have complete peace.
While I still see little girls who remind me of what was, that is no longer. Eventually I hope to be fortunate enough to have my own little girl. One who if she loves pretty dresses and baby dolls then I'll be ecstatic. However if she loves to run outside and play and be rough and tumble I will be ecstatic about that too. Children are such a gift and a blessing. I also understand it's no easy task. I have trouble being consistent with my dog so I can't imagine how much more of a challenge it will be if I ever do have children.
God's plan for our life is completely different then our own. I'm still learning to accept and move forward instead of planting my feet and trying to force my own way.
Yet there was a little blonde haired blue eyed girl. She was 3 when we met and she stole my heart. The thing is she nor I was perfect. I was in an odd place, not her mom, not her stepmom, just her Dad's girlfriend. But she was a part of my life and my heart in a big way!
I'm currently sitting in my cube at work and one of my coworkers just came by with his precious little girl. She's 2 with blonde curls and blue eyes and she just carried on a conversation with me. It took me back for just a minute.
I can now walk thru a target without immediately tearing up at the sight of little girl clothes. I can go to the mall and walk by The Children's place and go in and look for my nephew without too much hurt when I see the little girl clothes.
She's a tomboy now this little girly girl who stole my heart. She loved baby dolls and playing kitchen and pretty dresses. That part of her has been squelched by parents and step parents who don't approve and therefore don't allow her to have any of it. I too would have been squelched had I stayed with her father. I think it would have been daily misery had I continued my life with him.
It takes being 3 years out from the start and 2 years out from the end to look back and have complete peace.
While I still see little girls who remind me of what was, that is no longer. Eventually I hope to be fortunate enough to have my own little girl. One who if she loves pretty dresses and baby dolls then I'll be ecstatic. However if she loves to run outside and play and be rough and tumble I will be ecstatic about that too. Children are such a gift and a blessing. I also understand it's no easy task. I have trouble being consistent with my dog so I can't imagine how much more of a challenge it will be if I ever do have children.
God's plan for our life is completely different then our own. I'm still learning to accept and move forward instead of planting my feet and trying to force my own way.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
I've Noticed
I've noticed that when things are going really well I tend not to write as often. I'm also busy which does have something to do with how frequently I post but when something happens that really frustrates me I take to the blog to vent and get the thoughts out of my own head.
I wanted to take just a minute to talk about the truly truly awesome guy in my life and I'm not referring to the worlds best puppy dog Jack Banner.
I've explained about the current guy and how we met each other. As the weeks go by he impresses me more and more. Now I don't think that money is everything and I'm willing to work hard in order to be able to provide for myself. But that does not mean that I don't appreciate a guy who does nice things for me. I love the fact that my boyfriend opens the door for me consistently and every time. I love the fact that he runs with me and we are training for a 1/2 marathon together. He purchased me new running shoes so that I would not injure myself while we are training. He makes an effort to come and see me when he can. I like that fact that he helps out others, I really appreciate this attribute. I think he's just generally an amazing man! I remember thinking back around my birthday how I wished I had someone who wanted to do all the nice things for me that I have done for others in the past. I have been very generous and while some have been generous to me those relationships had flaws that could not be overlooked and I ended them.
With my boyfriend now I'm cautious, I have not told him that I'm crazy or bad at relationships. I'm crazy as all women have a few screws loose but I'm not psychotically crazy so therefor I feel that I do not need to share with him that occasionally I can be irrational and bitchy, that's most women so I'm going to leave that alone. Besides I try to keep that in check so why admit to something I'm constantly trying to be aware of and not let get the best of me. I've also had a habit of saying I'm bad at relationships but I refuse to say that anymore. I'm not, I've just been dating the wrong guys. I have to work on my own communication skills but for the most part the reasons my relationships have not worked out have been very valid!
I'm sure that as the weeks go by and he and I learn more about one another there will be likes and dislikes, agreements and disagreements. He's very laid back and I appreciate this about him!
I wanted to take just a minute to talk about the truly truly awesome guy in my life and I'm not referring to the worlds best puppy dog Jack Banner.
I've explained about the current guy and how we met each other. As the weeks go by he impresses me more and more. Now I don't think that money is everything and I'm willing to work hard in order to be able to provide for myself. But that does not mean that I don't appreciate a guy who does nice things for me. I love the fact that my boyfriend opens the door for me consistently and every time. I love the fact that he runs with me and we are training for a 1/2 marathon together. He purchased me new running shoes so that I would not injure myself while we are training. He makes an effort to come and see me when he can. I like that fact that he helps out others, I really appreciate this attribute. I think he's just generally an amazing man! I remember thinking back around my birthday how I wished I had someone who wanted to do all the nice things for me that I have done for others in the past. I have been very generous and while some have been generous to me those relationships had flaws that could not be overlooked and I ended them.
With my boyfriend now I'm cautious, I have not told him that I'm crazy or bad at relationships. I'm crazy as all women have a few screws loose but I'm not psychotically crazy so therefor I feel that I do not need to share with him that occasionally I can be irrational and bitchy, that's most women so I'm going to leave that alone. Besides I try to keep that in check so why admit to something I'm constantly trying to be aware of and not let get the best of me. I've also had a habit of saying I'm bad at relationships but I refuse to say that anymore. I'm not, I've just been dating the wrong guys. I have to work on my own communication skills but for the most part the reasons my relationships have not worked out have been very valid!
I'm sure that as the weeks go by and he and I learn more about one another there will be likes and dislikes, agreements and disagreements. He's very laid back and I appreciate this about him!
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